Guest Writer - Moet etc Blue
This is inspired by The Olympics which I have no interest in watching and a brief chat late one night on Div 42 with Miss Really who I do find interesting ……….From my observation of people it seems to me that mostly all people are competitive in nature - they want to win or be the best at something, everything if possible…
- to be the fastest, strongest, most skillful in sport
- to be the smartest wittiest most educated
- to be the richest most successful
- to be the most liked, popular, respected
- to be the best looking, sexiest, hottest most desirable
-and on it goes….
And to be publicly recognised for winning these ‘contests’ in life.
I notice this competitive behaviour on the other blogs, certain people trying to outdo each other by bragging about achievements and of course how hot they are, etc…it puzzles and amuses me.
On TV people compete to be next top model, next idol, next farmers wife, Tila Tequila or Brett Michaels’ next lover , best chef, best designer, best hairdresser , most beautiful girl in the Universe (hahahaha seriously hilarious) , all being judged by so called experts or the public…..I mean what the??? I just don’t relate to it at all…
People often ask (Miss Really this is what you asked if I remember right) why I do not compete in my chosen sport, they don’t see why I would train like a bodybuilder for 21 years and not want to compete. …
To me life is not a competition, I do the best I can do or the best I am prepared to do to make my life pleasant and enjoyable. That is it…as long as I am satisfied with what I have, what I know and what I look like, I am happy. I don’t care at all what anyone else thinks or if they know I have a particular quality/talent/wisdom.
There will always be someone who is smarter, younger, hotter and more talented than me, I don’t need to enter a competition to know where I fit in generally in society in any of those categories. I know what I look like, I know what I know and I know who I am and I don’t need reassurance or recognition or a trophy to make me feel special.
Questions:
Are you competitive? If so, why is it so important to win or be better at something/smarter than others? How does winning make you feel?